marriage 😇😇😇😇👰

Hi! First let me give you a big hug for my comeback. Hahahah
It is almost 9 months since my last writing was posted in this blog. It was about new year celebration and now we are heading a new year again. Hmmm
Again and again i will say that time fly really fast.
So, this time i want to share my happiness.♡
This year, my elder sister will get married. It will be held on 2014, 14th september, 3 days to go from now on. Hahahahha
So right now,we are busy preparing for her party.
I know that she has a lot of problem during her way to this marriage, that is why i feel so happy for my sister and my "brother in-law".
I hope that they will have a happy marriage life, cute children, and happiness. Be health abd wealth. Hahahahhaha Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu
So, what does marriage mean to you? Does it happen for fun? Or because it is a must to have a life partner?
For me, marriage is a new life. Because when we married,we are no longer we used to be before. It does not mean that marriage changes someone's character.
I mean that by marrying someone else, we have some changing in our life, don't we?
We will have a new family, new responsibilities, new lifestyle, new point of view of something and so many others which will change someone into someone new.
That is why i said that marriage means a new life for us. Therefore, marriage is not something that will be easily decided. We have to think about it a thousand times until we are 100% sure that we can do it. Unless, we will ruin our life. :(
So for them who are brave enough to open their new life, i give them a big salute.
At last but not least, may my sister and husband live in prosperity, happiness, togetherness ever after.
So, whose turn next? My third sister, we are waiting for your new life.

A little bit late actually ♡ happy new year 2014

hi there!
finally we are in the new year, 2014. Seems like i just passed my new year celebration yesterday, but now I'm gonna face another new year. Time fly really fast. -.-
what have you done this year? is there something good? or even something bad?
have you gotten a new job? or lost your job?
have you had another girl friend or boyfriend? or how many times you have changed you 'close friend'?
so many things can happen in one year, even if we don't know what it's happening. It's just happen like the sunshine rise, or even like we breathe.
it's happen naturally.
I like to think again about what I have done in one year. Don't you?
1 year means 12 moths, 365 days and thousand hours! if we have nothing, then everything is useless. we waste our thousand of hours.
Last year i got everything. I have my lovely boyfriend, job, new friends, new family and also new activity.
I enjoyed everything altough there's something i hate for.
Even if I should go to campus at 7 in the morning and go home at 7 at night, I enjoy that. That's my pleasure to do that, to study or even working. As long as I won't my parents worry about me.
Last year, I was not a girl anymore. I mean i am adult now, not teenager. Hahaha
I learn how to do everything by my own effort. I learn how to manage my time, my body, at all i learn to manage my life.
I decided which one i have to choose and the ready for that impact.
After all, of courss i cannot do that all without my family's support, without my boyfriend support.
So, thankyou everyone who has been involve in my life. Thankyou for being there. Hhe
This year, 2014, i want to be everything i have dreamt before. How about you?
what's your resolution in this new year?


Good day then,
XO

he was my bestfriend

Hi everyone,
I'm so happy today, because this is my first Tuesday off from college. hahahaha
today, I would like to introduce you guys with my special person.
He was my best friend. We have known each other since we were in junior high school.
We had been in 1 class for 2 years. so, it's quite a long time to know each other. doesn't it?
i had ever thought that he is a "cool" boy and i might like him.  hahahha but it was just my thought when i was 14 years old.
after 2 years in a class, we moved to a different senior high school.
thank God, this modern area gives us a lot of technology, so we can keep contact each other.
sometimes we like to hang out together, watching movie or just go swimming. well, just like another teenager usually do.
I never thought that he is my "cool" boy anymore. hahahah
After we graduated from senior high school, something has changed.
but, unfortunately i didn't know about it until Oka said it to me.
She said, "have you ever thought that he may be love you?" of course i laughed after listen to her question. It's impossible. He is my best friend!
a second after that, i thought more than twice about Oka's question. "does he?"
yah, he come to my house (almost everyday), sometimes he picks me up from somewhere, he like to hang out with my family, sometimes he come to have dinner together with my family.
I thought it was just best friend's activities.
actually, I am wrong.
12-12-12 he said that he love me and want to make a new relation with me.
that day was where my story begin.
This is my Gallery Picture. photos of my old best friend and I.
 my life is getting better when he stays beside me.
Andi

@ Cinta Rasa, my family's favorite restaurant. a day after we cut our hair.

with our new couple t-shirt. hahahha

@ Red Berry. It was Mon Mon' birthday.

@Millenium, when Grayson's birthday 

hey, may tattoo. Japanese alphabet means "A"

3 couples. I miss my Sister Angelina T.T

I don't know where. but maybe it was our first photo after a long time.

stupid action. but I Love it.

Lusi's birthday

@Lavita Bella. hhm, very expensive. x_x

whouuuu, under water picture. Thankyou ko Bedes 

 

in purple. it was my Grandma's birthday

Have some problem with your life? go find mirror!

Happy Tuesday everyone. Ups, maybe it's better if I say Happy Late Tuesday everyone. hahaha
Today, I would like to share about a little part of my life.
It's about how I learn to enjoy my life. How I motivate my self.
Now, I'm 18 years old. I am no longer a girl, I am a lady.
I started to work when I was 17, I just graduated from my senior high school at that time.
I started to earn money when my other friends like to pay something with their money. It felt strange. hahaha
I always remember when my lovely big cousin, Nico Big Tomato said "Selly, You are too young to earn money! You have to relax and enjoy your life when you are young! Go for vacation and take some free day! "
when He said it, I started to think about it. "Am I?" or "Should I?"
Then, I just realize although I work all day to earn money, I also could enjoy my life.
And maybe someone outside there, who has 1 month holiday or  1 billion dollars couldn't enjoy their life.
so, what does it mean?
Enjoying your life doesn't always mean you have to have a happy life. it doesn't mean you  need a luxury life to enjoy your life.
I really could enjoy and appreciate my life better than the other.
Whatever you do or whenever you go or whoever you go with, as long as you love it, you can enjoy it. When you can enjoy something, it's your happy and relax life. 
I enjoy being my self right now, I am 18 years old and I can pay my self for what I need.
It doesn't mean I really proud of it, I just want to motivate you as I motivate my self.
This time, even someone else say that I am still a child, but I can prove them that I can manage my self, although it's not perfect yet. hahahah
from my daily activity, I learn how to manage my time, manage my money, manage my energy and manage my needed.
From all that I've learned, I learn about how to be grateful and appreciate everything that have happened or are going to be happen in my life.
whether it's good or not, it comes with some reasons. and I always believe it is for a good reason.
So, are you thinking you have a poor life? or are you going to blame God for your boring life?
go find a mirror, look at what it reflects and say whatever you wanna say to someone in the mirror. I do believe someone in the mirror will help you, if you have a strong faith in it.
Good Luck everyone!
make your own fun life and enjoy it.
Do what you love and love what you do.
Life is simple when you think it is simple. it all are depend on you!
Keep your spirit burn like a fire! 

Everything happens for a reason. What is it?

My lecture gave this passage as our mid term test, but I'd like to say that it was our pleasure to have this kind of meaningfull passage.
I don't know where is this passage comes from, I meant the book or the author, but the one that I know is this passage is very inspiring.
So, I would like to share this passage in my blog, so other people can be inspired by this passage too.

EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they are meant to be there. They serve some sort of ourpose like teaching you a lesson or helping you figure out what you want to become. These people can be your roommate, neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger who when you look your eyes with his, you know that he will affect you life in some profound way.

Sometimes things happen to you and they may be horrible, painful or unfair. But in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you will never have realized your potential, strength, will power or heart.

EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, great loss and sheer stupidity, occur to test the limits of your soul, Without these small test -events, illnesses or relationship, life would be like a smoothly paved straight, flat road to nowhere. A safe and comfortable but dull life does not give you anything. YOUR EXPERIENCES CREATE WHO YOU ARE. You can learn a lot from them.

If someone hurts, betrays, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious go whom you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not because they love you, but because they teach you to love and open your heart and your eyes to things you would have never seen or felt before. MAKE EVERYDAY COUNT. Appreciate every moment and take it from everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people you have never talked before, and listen to them. Let yourself fall in love. Break free and set your sights up. Hold your head up because you have every right to do so. Tell yourself that you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't, no one else will believe in you.

YOU CAN MAKE OF YOUR LIFE ANYTHING YOU WISH. CREATE YOUR OWN LIFE AND GET OUT AND LIVE IT.

You see? Nothing happens without any reason and everything happens will never come back with disadvantages.
Enjoy your life guys and those great things are waiting for you.

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New year ♡

New year is coming. 2013 already, one year past so fast.
I celebrate my new year in Bangka, with buddhayana youth. In Temu karya X
In a last minute of 2012 i thought about what i have done during 1 year.
I thought about the things that ever made me happy, sad, surprise, and terible.
And all of those memories made me feel like i am the poor one,
I know it was wrong. My life is more than enough. Hahahah
Thank you for all who is ever being a part of my life. Thankyou mom and daddy. Thankyou my sisters, my friends, my haters, my lovers and the other.
Btw, i got a gift from someone there, someone i never expect before.
He gave me a bottle with a ship inside. It is very beautiful, he said it is a gift for my hardwork. Even i am not the winner, but for him i already a winner. Thankyou so much brother. See u very soon then.
I also got new friends from other city,
I also got a new experience, i learn how to accept the fact that i was loser with a smile. It is not important wheter i win or not, the most important thing is i had already given my best.
Next march i'm gonna see you again friends.
Happy new year everyone,
Wish us a blast new year, a great new year, a great future,
God, last year was so much fun. Laugh, tears, smile, surprise, everything were so much awesome.
Last year You teach me how to hide my sorrow and let anyone know that i am better than yesterday.
This year, i'm not gonna hide my sorrow anymore. I'm gonna be happy. Just Bless me God, because i know u have planned it beautifully at the end.

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I love you my life ♡

Hi there!
How's life? Great as i hope. Hahaha
Actually, i have nothing important to share,
I just want to tell the whole world that i am really thankful of my awesome life.
I have a powerful parents, lovely sisters, great family, awesome bestfriends and so many others who care enough about me,
But Sometimes i think about "what else i need?" Then a lot of thing come out of my mind and join my top list needed.
After that, i think about people who actually need everything i already had, indeed.
And it wake me and realize me about how lucky i am, how great my life, even with all the sadness that i've ever through.

I have a grampy daddy, who is really talk less. But somehow, he is really love and protect me, maybe the way he show it just different with the one that i watched in film. Hahaha
For provement, every morning he get up and pick me up to my campus. Actually i know that it is very difficult for him to get up in the morning.
In other hand, one thing that really touched me is he set his phone wallpaper and his display picture with my photo.
Maybe he never say "i love you my daughter" but i know, he really do. ♥♥♥

I also have a super mommy. She can do anything; cooking, sewing, taking care of family, and so many others.
She is very multitalented. She always support me, whatever i want to do. She always be the first who watch me if i join a competition. She always wake up earlier just to prepare my breakfast.
It is actually very simple, but one thing that for sure is my mom do anything with a deep compassion.
♥♥♥

2 persons that inspire me a lot, 2 persons that give me a spirit to survive, 2 persons that motivate me to do my best, 2 person that i will be proud of.

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11-11-12

Now, let me share about my best boy birthday. Just pass 1 day after me. 11-11-12.
So, just like i told before, i stay at my friend house. At danil's house.
That was very interesting for me, finally i got my parent's permission. Hahah
At that time, andi was going home to take his motorcycle. During that, we prepared hia birthday cake.
We prepared it in our last minute. So the birthday cake just made from brownies, craft chedar and chocki chocki. Wkakaka




We stayed at celin's bedroom, and the suddenly andi came. And we said "SURPRISE!!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY ANDI!!"
Hahah






I made it from the stars. With hope, someday u will be the star of hope. ♥

After that we just watched football games, ate noodle, played card, watched ghost movie, chit chat and so on. We didn't sleep until 6 o'clock in the morning.
What a tiring day but it totally fun. Hahah


We had our drink competition. Hahahah



I gonna be drunk. ♥

So, happy birthday to both of us andi. May this year gonna be blast, nice and awesome.
May God always bless you my boy.
May al being happy

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