Have some problem with your life? go find mirror!

Happy Tuesday everyone. Ups, maybe it's better if I say Happy Late Tuesday everyone. hahaha
Today, I would like to share about a little part of my life.
It's about how I learn to enjoy my life. How I motivate my self.
Now, I'm 18 years old. I am no longer a girl, I am a lady.
I started to work when I was 17, I just graduated from my senior high school at that time.
I started to earn money when my other friends like to pay something with their money. It felt strange. hahaha
I always remember when my lovely big cousin, Nico Big Tomato said "Selly, You are too young to earn money! You have to relax and enjoy your life when you are young! Go for vacation and take some free day! "
when He said it, I started to think about it. "Am I?" or "Should I?"
Then, I just realize although I work all day to earn money, I also could enjoy my life.
And maybe someone outside there, who has 1 month holiday or  1 billion dollars couldn't enjoy their life.
so, what does it mean?
Enjoying your life doesn't always mean you have to have a happy life. it doesn't mean you  need a luxury life to enjoy your life.
I really could enjoy and appreciate my life better than the other.
Whatever you do or whenever you go or whoever you go with, as long as you love it, you can enjoy it. When you can enjoy something, it's your happy and relax life. 
I enjoy being my self right now, I am 18 years old and I can pay my self for what I need.
It doesn't mean I really proud of it, I just want to motivate you as I motivate my self.
This time, even someone else say that I am still a child, but I can prove them that I can manage my self, although it's not perfect yet. hahahah
from my daily activity, I learn how to manage my time, manage my money, manage my energy and manage my needed.
From all that I've learned, I learn about how to be grateful and appreciate everything that have happened or are going to be happen in my life.
whether it's good or not, it comes with some reasons. and I always believe it is for a good reason.
So, are you thinking you have a poor life? or are you going to blame God for your boring life?
go find a mirror, look at what it reflects and say whatever you wanna say to someone in the mirror. I do believe someone in the mirror will help you, if you have a strong faith in it.
Good Luck everyone!
make your own fun life and enjoy it.
Do what you love and love what you do.
Life is simple when you think it is simple. it all are depend on you!
Keep your spirit burn like a fire! 

Everything happens for a reason. What is it?

My lecture gave this passage as our mid term test, but I'd like to say that it was our pleasure to have this kind of meaningfull passage.
I don't know where is this passage comes from, I meant the book or the author, but the one that I know is this passage is very inspiring.
So, I would like to share this passage in my blog, so other people can be inspired by this passage too.

EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they are meant to be there. They serve some sort of ourpose like teaching you a lesson or helping you figure out what you want to become. These people can be your roommate, neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger who when you look your eyes with his, you know that he will affect you life in some profound way.

Sometimes things happen to you and they may be horrible, painful or unfair. But in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you will never have realized your potential, strength, will power or heart.

EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, great loss and sheer stupidity, occur to test the limits of your soul, Without these small test -events, illnesses or relationship, life would be like a smoothly paved straight, flat road to nowhere. A safe and comfortable but dull life does not give you anything. YOUR EXPERIENCES CREATE WHO YOU ARE. You can learn a lot from them.

If someone hurts, betrays, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious go whom you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not because they love you, but because they teach you to love and open your heart and your eyes to things you would have never seen or felt before. MAKE EVERYDAY COUNT. Appreciate every moment and take it from everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people you have never talked before, and listen to them. Let yourself fall in love. Break free and set your sights up. Hold your head up because you have every right to do so. Tell yourself that you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't, no one else will believe in you.

YOU CAN MAKE OF YOUR LIFE ANYTHING YOU WISH. CREATE YOUR OWN LIFE AND GET OUT AND LIVE IT.

You see? Nothing happens without any reason and everything happens will never come back with disadvantages.
Enjoy your life guys and those great things are waiting for you.

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New year ♡

New year is coming. 2013 already, one year past so fast.
I celebrate my new year in Bangka, with buddhayana youth. In Temu karya X
In a last minute of 2012 i thought about what i have done during 1 year.
I thought about the things that ever made me happy, sad, surprise, and terible.
And all of those memories made me feel like i am the poor one,
I know it was wrong. My life is more than enough. Hahahah
Thank you for all who is ever being a part of my life. Thankyou mom and daddy. Thankyou my sisters, my friends, my haters, my lovers and the other.
Btw, i got a gift from someone there, someone i never expect before.
He gave me a bottle with a ship inside. It is very beautiful, he said it is a gift for my hardwork. Even i am not the winner, but for him i already a winner. Thankyou so much brother. See u very soon then.
I also got new friends from other city,
I also got a new experience, i learn how to accept the fact that i was loser with a smile. It is not important wheter i win or not, the most important thing is i had already given my best.
Next march i'm gonna see you again friends.
Happy new year everyone,
Wish us a blast new year, a great new year, a great future,
God, last year was so much fun. Laugh, tears, smile, surprise, everything were so much awesome.
Last year You teach me how to hide my sorrow and let anyone know that i am better than yesterday.
This year, i'm not gonna hide my sorrow anymore. I'm gonna be happy. Just Bless me God, because i know u have planned it beautifully at the end.

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I love you my life ♡

Hi there!
How's life? Great as i hope. Hahaha
Actually, i have nothing important to share,
I just want to tell the whole world that i am really thankful of my awesome life.
I have a powerful parents, lovely sisters, great family, awesome bestfriends and so many others who care enough about me,
But Sometimes i think about "what else i need?" Then a lot of thing come out of my mind and join my top list needed.
After that, i think about people who actually need everything i already had, indeed.
And it wake me and realize me about how lucky i am, how great my life, even with all the sadness that i've ever through.

I have a grampy daddy, who is really talk less. But somehow, he is really love and protect me, maybe the way he show it just different with the one that i watched in film. Hahaha
For provement, every morning he get up and pick me up to my campus. Actually i know that it is very difficult for him to get up in the morning.
In other hand, one thing that really touched me is he set his phone wallpaper and his display picture with my photo.
Maybe he never say "i love you my daughter" but i know, he really do. ♥♥♥

I also have a super mommy. She can do anything; cooking, sewing, taking care of family, and so many others.
She is very multitalented. She always support me, whatever i want to do. She always be the first who watch me if i join a competition. She always wake up earlier just to prepare my breakfast.
It is actually very simple, but one thing that for sure is my mom do anything with a deep compassion.
♥♥♥

2 persons that inspire me a lot, 2 persons that give me a spirit to survive, 2 persons that motivate me to do my best, 2 person that i will be proud of.

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11-11-12

Now, let me share about my best boy birthday. Just pass 1 day after me. 11-11-12.
So, just like i told before, i stay at my friend house. At danil's house.
That was very interesting for me, finally i got my parent's permission. Hahah
At that time, andi was going home to take his motorcycle. During that, we prepared hia birthday cake.
We prepared it in our last minute. So the birthday cake just made from brownies, craft chedar and chocki chocki. Wkakaka




We stayed at celin's bedroom, and the suddenly andi came. And we said "SURPRISE!!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY ANDI!!"
Hahah






I made it from the stars. With hope, someday u will be the star of hope. ♥

After that we just watched football games, ate noodle, played card, watched ghost movie, chit chat and so on. We didn't sleep until 6 o'clock in the morning.
What a tiring day but it totally fun. Hahah


We had our drink competition. Hahahah



I gonna be drunk. ♥

So, happy birthday to both of us andi. May this year gonna be blast, nice and awesome.
May God always bless you my boy.
May al being happy

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Awesome 18 birthday ♥

Haaaai, let me tell u about my awesome 18 birthday.
this birthday i got the beautiful date, it's 10-11-12.
I also get the beautiful surprises as beauty as the date. Hha
First surprise just came from the one that cannot be mention. He came at 00:00 bring doraemon cake and red rose. So cute that cake and so in time he is.
At first i just made fun of this surprise, i thought that he is just think the same as me.
Unfortunately he isn't.
I'm so sorry, i didn't mean to hurt you. I'm just not ready yet to make the new story with you. With anyone else. :)


Thankyiu so much.

We have been a good friend since the first time u said you fall in love with my eyes. 3 years ago. Now, can we just continue?

Next, my second surprise was from my college's classmate. At that time, i had already arrived at class but no teacher. What the hell! I brought my heavy laptop, my books, and did my assignment in last minute, but it useless.
In the long run, citra asked me to friend her to go to toilet. When we came back to class, they sang a birthday song for me with 2 cupcakes that are just like me in red cheongsam.
So surprising. Thankyou my Oka! Citra! And the others.
What a blast birtday.


Thankyou guys. Hha

Next, my third surprise was from Koko Benny. He just pick me up and had a lunch, the he said suddenly he has to send an email to his friens. So we need to go to his dorm immediately.
When we arrived, there is a cute doll on his bed.
Hahahah thankyou so much then,
But i am so sorry, i also did'nt mean to hurt you. You are a kind person, care, protect. But it just hard to fall in love again. I just want to enjoy my own life with my self. Need your understanding so much. Maybe u don't know my stories, but i feel it.



Next, my fourth surprise was from my students. Elevem science students. Actually it wasn't a surprise anymore, because on of them had already told me to be ready for the surprise? So, can us called it surprise? Hahahha but, still a lot of thanks for you my dearest.




Next, my fifth surprise was from my best friend. We just had our dinner together until they gave me that guitar. I was shock, why they give me guitar? I can't play it at all. Hahahah
Thankyou my Amdi, lusi, tara, mon, elvin, danil, jeje.





My girls.

That's alk about my awesome birthday.
Thankyou god, thankyou mom and dad, thankyou my fmily, my best friends, and the others, hahaha
My all being happy then.
Eit, i forgot one thing, on my birthday finally i can stay in my friend house. This is also a surprise from my parents, hahahaha
Thankyou mommy daddy.

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Is coming. Lalalala

Holaaaaa,
U know what? I fell curious about something,
My friend at campus and my students just always remind me that my birthday is coming,
Then it makes me think, is there any special things on that day?
I'm getting mature already, 18 years old.
Not a little girl anymore, I'm a lady. Hahahaha
I hope can be a beautiful lady. Hahahah
18 means i have to be independent enough to survive.
18, old already, may i turn back to 16? Hahahahah
Nonono, i have to keep thankful, hahaha
Hope the blast birthday later on.


Am i cute? LOL


Try new dress.


Is it me? LOL

This is the most freak post i have ever wrote, wkwkwk

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Wedding anniversary 28 years

Hay world! ♡♡♡
Actually i have written my parents wedding anniv post, but i dunno why it can't be post. Huh.
I have to re-write then, hahaha
Last 28 october 2012 was my parents's wedding anniversary, it's been 28 years they are being together.
They passed every moment of life together. Happy, sad, fights, anger, and so many others.
But i do believe it won't decrease their feeling. I do hope it can build their love more stronger than before. Hahaha
Always proud to be your daughter mom and dad.
Wish u a lot of happiness, joyfulness, etc.
Always loving each other ya mom and dad,
Always love you my precious. ♥


So sweet my mom and dad. Keep in love yaaaaa. Hha


My precious family. Wish u were here my 2nd sister.


Witg my littke cute naughty cousin, cia cia. Hha


Happiness is everywhere.


My gift for them. Haha

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